In this video, I’m going to teach you how to get your ex girlfriend back. Just to warn you, this is just going to be a brief video — If you want something more in depth, go to be my website.
The first phase is the recovery phase. Why recovery? Well, you need to recover and get over that loneliness and heartache so you can think rationally. I know it’s difficult at this point to just think about recovery, but in this state, you don’t want to slip up and say something that will push your ex girlfriend further away.
So how do you recover? For starters, you want to ignore your ex for 30 days. Why? Well, first of all, it helps you recover. Additionally, you need to remove all the reminders of her away. Put her pictures and love notes in a box and put them away.
In the mean time, stay busy! Pick up a hobby, hang out with friends, focus on work, and go out on dates.
After the recovery period, we move on to the rekindling period. There are two parts to this. The first part is making your ex MISS you. Yes, part of this is NOT talking about her. Think about it… when you were with her, you were around her and talking to her like crazy. Now that you’ve taken that away from her, she’ll begin to miss you. This is one of the reasons why the ‘no contact’ thing works so well.
Once you’ve recovered and rekindled, now you’re ready to reach out and establish communication. But you have to be ready — visit http://www.breakupbrad.com and watch the free video on there to find out more.
You simply can’t just send any old message. You have to be ready for this.
You want to make sure that your first message is FUN and positive. Make sure that the message is also brief. Avoid any sort of negativity. Now is not the time to argue with your ex girlfriend. You want her back, remember? Not to push her away.
The goal of the first contact is just to get her think about you positively. Show her how well you’re doing and that you’re back to the man that she fell in love with in the first place. This is important.
Finally, make her a LITTLE bit jealous. Tell her about some girls that you’ve been dating and how much they’re into you. Tell her about all the cool things you’ve been doing.
And now onto phase 3, which is re-attraction. Now it’s time to arrange an in-person meeting. Get a chance to meet her in person and flirt with her. This could be something like going out for coffee or going out for a couple drinks. The goal here is to reignite the flame and flirt like crazy!
The ULTIMATE goal here is to have sex with your ex again. You should be having sex with your ex girlfriend as soon as possible. In order for you to get to that point, you really need to know how to FLIRT with your ex girlfriend. Again, if you really want to learn how to flirt with your ex, head on over to my website http://www.breakupbrad.com/