At some point you are reviewing all the numbers you have stored in your cell phone and one of those numbers seem to be capturing all your attention. Every time you see it, you get a feeling and you know there’s a reason that seems nevertheless still appear always in sight.
But ofcourse, is the phone number of your ex-girlfriend, who has not seen and less spoken in a while and some of you want to push the button to immediately call on the spot. But should you?
The first moment and ask yourself what really is why you are calling after spending some time? What are your true intentions behind that feeling where you should talk to her again?
One thing is to call to see what they have been doing since the last time the two spoke to each. Another thing is if you have another motive behind making that phone call.
But what if it’s because you want her back?
If the real reason you want to contact your ex girlfriend is because actually feel like you want her back in your life, then there are some things you need to know to be realistic about whether she is the one you want to back in your life and now it:
a) It may be deeply involved with someone else at the moment and your call may not be desired finish showing you at this time.
b) may not be the same woman you met. People can change in a short period of time and you are longing for the woman might not be what it is in reality.
c) may have only negative thoughts when they think of you. The fact that you have good thoughts about it, does not necessarily mean that she feels the same.
You have to go slow and see what happens
If the main reason you want to contact your ex girlfriend back is because you want to retrieve it from the heart, then my first suggestion to you is to take it slow. You have to get to know her again and anyway you have to find out what your current situation.
For no reason you should tell him you want it back to the first few minutes of talking with her, because that attitude is the kind of things I could do to hang up and ignore you every time you try to call her again, so much care.
When you realize that actually wants you back, you have to start focusing on what she wants again, if you have a second chance with her.