Many times when we are caught in a relationship that goes nowhere but is too “stuck” and can not or do not do anything about it, this can be a terrible state of limbo. Not in motion or progress, or move on with your life. But at the same time, you have the courage to leave your state of inertia.
If your partner makes the first move apart, to your interior should be a comfort. At least your partner has had the guts to decide that enough is enough and it’s time to go their separate ways.
The situation is completely different though, if rupture occurs when you or your partner at least not expected.
These types of separations can be painful and devastating.
If it was you who ended the relationship because he saw no future in it, you can be relieved (a) to end the relationship now, before losing most of your life on it, but not if your partner is still in love (a) you, then this break is coming, is going to hit like an express train.
Break in these situations is difficult because even though you realize it’s time to move on, you can see the damage you are causing your partner. These feelings can leave you in a state of confusion and even make you feel sorry for your partner, perhaps enough to want to do and getting back together again.
Do not do this even if the separation is difficult
Of course, doing this only going to give you comfort in the short term but in the back of your mind you still have the nagging doubt that you really want out of this relationship.
In these situations, you have to keep your decision, but will still be there to provide support to your ex lover. Better yet, because you do not even want to stay too long – is seeking the support of your partner’s family and friends to know that your partner is being cared for.
You never know with some gaps, especially when the other party does not see it coming, how much sadness and even depression a person can feel. You can not comfort your partner for a long time, because then you get caught again in the relationship and this is what we want to avoid.
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