When a person marries not repair in the fact that the expectations from life can change. Two people when they are young may overlap in the way of seeing the world. But with the passage of time they can be totally different by many factors that life will be presenting on the road and end up not understood. Then comes the emotional crisis, which manifests itself in different ways.
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arried or live together only by a primarily physical attraction and as a compromise of these is not only the physical tenderness, but also entailed responsibilities, within them are the children if they arrive. Then come also the problems, if at some point there is no intention to not be sacrificed or devoted his time to children, but only want to live the good side of the conjugal relationship. Here there are also setbacks.
Economic problems, may also arise the shake of life for the commitments of each, the misunderstanding of affectivity are factors that are critical to the coexistence and make home in hell due to fights and rivalries of the couple.
When the life partner becomes intolerable, there are couples therapists, psychologists from family, lawyers specializing in these emotional issues for both procedures, such as legal to make part of the divorce.
These legal proceedings will shorten or lengthen according to the will to put the parties to collaborate in the definition of the situation. Optimal is that the couple participate and contribute in the separation or divorce, when they are convinced that the best thing is to stay far away friends, rather than being a close and permanent enemies. Sometimes children are an obstacle to some parents do not exceed, but specialists in human behavior argue that children are the hardest when you live in an atmosphere of permanent conflict.
There are people with solid cultural background who think that romantic relationships require a degree of seriousness, that households should be handled with order or become a contributor to desajustar society. The summation of the families that are part of the social fabric, like a brick in a building, form the solid structure of a society or a State, so must be taken seriously and love.
Divorce is fashion, said people in their everyday comments. “Continuing married a person who does not love is a perversion”, can you tell others. The tradition or custom of living life with the same person no longer stays, so has children of medium.
This is important to have very clear things when you go to take a decision as serious as the marriage or living together in couple and also think very seriously when there are children of medium, so that they do not end up paying the consequences of our bad decisions.
Reflect good behavior and cooperation which you have had in his family, never look for culprits outside, do not feel the victim, but much less the offender, only look inside what has been his contribution in the home and what might be the reason for their separation or divorce, so being aware of the situation can help and the wisest solution to move forward.