I know right now you want your ex girlfriend back. I, like you at some point in my life, I walk down the wrong path. I tried by all means to convince why should hand back to me, and this definitely was not the right way to do it.
In fact, I kept running into a wall ruthlessly cold. What he was telling nothing but words were lost, and were not causing any reaction to it. And she knew it.
But what I mean by all this?
Well, the truth is that often you will find that if you keep doing cold wall what you’re doing wrong. Realize that you will not change your mind, like anyone is going to change your way of thinking when you do not want to do something.
Especially when you already made a decision.
You’re probably thinking a lot, was thinking about the subject, «Well, if it is in your mind the question, ?» Really, I’m glad you came to this aetículo.
In no way is the begging, begging and apologizing. And sometimes, you might end up wondering, you did wrong and end up apologizing or apologize for something you should not apologize. And please not to do that or act that way.
If you really want to get your ex girlfriend you must follow these 3 rules…
* Do not try to change your opinion
* Do not apologize, not knowing how or why you’re going to apologize
* Do not force yourself to hate
1. – Do not try to change your opinion
Keep in mind that she has already made a decision. If you try to change it, Haras who clings to his decision, giving you the ability and power to say no and control the outcome. If you try to change your mood, not only have the power in their own hands, have the option to start thinking about how things were, and how they could be without you by his side.
2. – Do not apologize if you do not know why
If you have nothing to apologize, then do not. If there is a reason I should apologize, then I have to do at a given time, and in a way to create an instant connection with her.
You have to let some time pass before apologize if you do not, will not hold the apology. Then, when you do, you have to put yourself in the place of her and her feelings. That’s the right way to do it – but if you do it too early will have a greater shorting only your success, and fail. If you do it at the right time, you can change your state of mind instead of your mind.
3. – No help her to hate
Although she told you she hates you, she said it still mad at you. You know people say things in anger, then regret it. But if you try to change his mind constantly, calling, sending text messages, you are trying to change her mind, and she efarrara to its decision, the anger will accumulate more and more turning into hatred, because you’re going to create and build thoughts negative therein.
Let her alone, begins to wonder who will. This alone does wonders for you will be changing your mood. After spending some time, if you have the need to apologize, a proper apology will help you reconnect with your feelings that was recently lost resagado.
Surely you want to express all your love lost after starting to lose it, but this is just a desperate attempt by a desperate person and you should not let your emotions dictate your actions, because surely fail.
All you should have done when they were together of course. But okay mate, you can do when you manage to get your ex girlfriend, then just do not forget. OJO not try to skip or rush.
So remember, at the time of the break, do not try to change your opinion or yours, let it go and deal with their own process of things, instead of changing your mood, change yours.
Do not go after her for the moment, it is important that you do not. Do not apologize if you do not have to, if you do, you have to let some time pass, and how to re-connect with their feelings.
And finally, do not make you sick attempts mentioned earlier, otherwise will increase their negative emotions, and always give you the power to choose an uncontrolled NO.
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