If the relationship with your wife is somewhat decayed or is definitely over, the advice I will give you in this article will help you know how to fall in love again and bring her into your arms.
The first thing to know is that your wife, whether your wife or girlfriend, has decided to step aside or is giving you signs that there is something she does not like about you.
This I say because there are many men who believe that when their women abandon them can «magically» recover with some technique or some miracle phrase, this does not exist.
The subject is something deeper than that. When the man manages to realize that his partner no longer sees in him the man he fell in love with, it is when the man can take an intelligent course of action to make the necessary changes to recover the relationship.
So, for all this to give results the most important thing is that the man is willing to:
1) Make changes.
2) Be patient.
3) Accept the crisis or break for a while.
4) Do not torment yourself with the breakdown of the relationship or look at the past.
5) Try to face your life in a normal way, as if nothing had happened.
All this builds the «mental health» of man, FUNDAMENTAL aspect to return to fall in love to a woman and regain a relationship.
If, on the contrary, the man does not make an effort to change, he does not accept the rupture of the relationship, he is impatient, he is dedicated to look at photos of the past and to think about his ex all day, and he stops doing the activities that he normally does , the result will be an unbalanced, unattractive and uninteresting man.
Could a woman fall in love or fall in love with such a man again? Very difficult.
So here I give you some guidelines about changes that you must make in your behaviors so that you get to fall in love again to your woman and you can bring it to your arms again. It does not matter if your wife is with another or she no longer loves you. These principles work to make you more attractive, always.
To return to fall in love to a woman you must have a WINNING presence, and to achieve it you have to follow these steps:
Optimize your health and energy.
The Winner is not an apathetic person, weak, pale or emaciated. No matter what situation you are in today, if you have an illness or if you have never stepped into a hospital. Never settle for anything below the best you can be.
Your inner health determines how you look outside. When your body is dirty inside or in a deplorable state, your natural appeal diminishes. A man with a lot of energy has something that women detect long before he even opens his mouth.
Inadequate internal health also damages your mood and your energy levels, all this harms you when trying to be attractive and to fall in love again to your woman.
You have to ask something simple: Do you want to know your best version? Or do you conform to being what you are now? If you decide to be your best version, you should know that the man inside you has a healthy and balanced diet.
Do you know the Kaizen methodology (constant improvement)? This article talks more about this philosophy of life, which will make you reach your best version.
Look for reference models.
Man always needs models, idols, or characters (real or fictional) whose presence inspires them. Actors, musicians, cartoons, video game characters or whatever you want.
You must have a character you’d like to look like, well, you’re still in time to do it. And it’s not about imitating everything or abandoning your natural essence, it’s about taking it as a simple Guide to your personal improvement.
Take care to always be comfortable, like at home.
attractive man Avoid situations that make you uncomfortable, or work them out so they do not cause negative effects. Always try, in every situation, to enjoy the moment and live in it. Do not think about what you have done or have to do, just thank the moment and feel comfortable.
A man who is comfortable with the situation he is living at the moment, is an attractive man that transcends positive energy that translates into women’s interest in him.
Learn to breathe with the diaphragm.
What does this have to do with trying to fall in love again, you’re wondering? And the answer is: TOO MUCH.
To return to fall in love to a woman it is necessary to demonstrate to her that you are calm, that you behave like a Winner, that you do not have troubles and that you are always comfortable, and the best way to reflect all this is always maintaining a slow and deep breathing.
You may not have noticed, but when you are stressed breathe with your chest, that is, this is the one that goes up and down with your breaths. On the contrary, when you are calm, you breathe with your stomach.
The Winner always breathes with his stomach, because he is always comfortable. Making this simple change in your life will make your appearance and your presence improve considerably, as it will reflect in your body posture, tone of voice and other behaviors.
To get used to breathing properly, I recommend inhaling for 4 seconds (inflating your stomach), holding the air for about 8 seconds, and blowing all the air (deflating your stomach) for about 16 seconds. Do not worry about keeping the exact account, what matters is the ratio.
Claim your space.
Take a look at your body right now. How are you sitting? Are you hunched over? Are you diminishing? Or are you perfectly straight and very comfortable in your position?
Look also when you are walking, or sitting on your couch watching a movie, how do you usually? Your body posture defines you. The most important thing when it comes to falling in love again is to feel comfortable in front of her, and your body position is tremendously important to achieve this.
Slow down your voice and your movements.
Imagine yourself in your home, very relaxed, no paperwork to do, no pressure. How would you behave? At what speed would you move or speak? Probably at a much slower and slower pace than if you were on the street or at work.
You have to try, from today, to slow down your voice, your movements and everything that you do. Take your time for everything. With this I do not mean that you are late to your work or place of studies, what I say is that you always look for (when you can) take things more slowly.
Your breathing, gestures, flicker, speech, movements, expressions, everything should be paused and always generating some exploration.
Tell her no to sudden movements, unless you have to run from an accident. All of these tips are all part of what you should do to improve your personal appeal and become «your best version».