Probably you married your 20 years. Now they are both in the late forties, maybe fifty or more years. So they sat, quietly drinking coffee, staring into space, staring at nothing, without saying anything to each other, because there is probably nothing to say.
Your relationship needs a change…
Finally, you ask your partner if she would like another coffee. She shakes her head with a statement. He takes his two cups and plates of sandwiches, waiting for the waiter to bring him two cups again, and returns to the table.
«Do you have any idea for this afternoon?» She asks, breaking positively with boredom.
«I think I’ll have time. After that boy do, you can stroll through the city. Good for you»
«Anything you want to do, honey.» was the reply.
This simply is fiction, but if you are an observer applied, and I think most of us, we can definitely see this kind of scene in any cafe or mall we visited.
There are angry with each other, in fact they are just boring. Again, you’ll see that this happens all over the place. Anger or rage rarely gets in this. The great indifference in this situation, it is actually worse.
This couple, like millions of other couples like them, allow the relationship simply is directed to nothing, and it’s a shame.
Both were definitely in love with each other at first, but second time passed, both allowed the love that once had for each other begin to slowly disappear from their lives.
Is your relationship needs a makeover?
Relationships must feed, care, like a plant needs water and care to grow, it is also the same with relationships. One thing you can do is set aside a certain amount of time each day to be with your partner and talk about everything.
Let everyone talk about how they go about their jobs, and show a real interest in this. One of you can tell that maybe they have a problem at work and would like to talk about it. There’s that old and wise saying, «. A problem shared is a problem half» And in fact, it is very true.
Can you talk about your views on politics, but should be a little more careful with this issue. If both do not agree on their views can be taken lightly!
In these days of an unstable economy, couples can not spend as much time together as they should. Both have if or when to work, but remember that it is important to set the time to talk and make love.
When your wife clean the house, congratulate her for the good work he has done. One or both of you may have a special dream, a desire to fulfill. Whatever you do, encourage your partner to do. Join him or her in your life and will join you in yours.
Personally, I think it’s a good idea to go back to those days when they were courting. As I said before, at that time both loved each other, why not repeat it now?
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