When you are totally determined to recover your ex girlfriend, it does not matter if she is thousands of kilometers away, you will work until you get it, even if the process is more complicated.
The truth is that most of the articles that I write in this blog about how to get your ex-wife, take as a starting point that she lives near you. At least in your own city, and that it is possible that you meet her at some point.
But I have received several comments from readers who find themselves in a different situation.
In my opinion, when there is love, distance is the least, and although it is a very difficult obstacle, there are couples who can have a perfectly happy relationship despite the distance.
But is it worth trying to recover your Ex Girlfriend back if she lives far away?
Let’s face it human beings need physical contact, loving relationships need to show love. Not only with words, but with contact. A kiss, a caress, a hug.
Many times words are superfluous in these situations. I am not referring exclusively to the sexual aspect of the relationship, but only to feel close to each other. By being able to see each other’s eyes, hold hands and walk together.
Generally, in the majority of the occasions the relations to distances wear out. And sooner or later one or both ends up being infidels, for the same thing that I mentioned a while ago.
I only recommend trying to recover your ex-wife if she’s only temporarily away. That is, working or studying, etc; but that plans to return to the city where you live in a period of time not very long.
Now that we are clear on that point. Let’s start
1- Take advantage of the time: You have everything in your favor now to get fit. Since surely they will not be seen in a long time; You have the wonderful opportunity to leave her open-mouthed when an encounter occurs.
Focus on improving your physical appearance, of course without obsessing. Cultivate a lot of social life (it’s important) have new friends, do recreational activities. Live a full and fun life.
2- Stay in touch. Let him know that you still remember her, that you think about her. But in a casual way. Understand that recover it while she is there and your here is practically impossible.
What you would achieve by applying these tips is to leave a door open, to remain with a bridge of contact that unites them; so that when she returns you can go back to her and recover your relationship with her.
Yes, otherwise she will not return or at least not soon. You must make the decision that is most sensible and best for you. Continue with your life. Facing a definitive break can be very hard. And friends and family are excellent support at those times.
With this I am not saying that you give up or that you do not fight for the love of your wife. Retrieving it even if it is far away is possible. But the reality is that you must analyze if it is worth the effort or not.