In life we meet someone special and fell in love with him or her, we come to live and /or marry them. Then as time passes, things happen that make the love fades, so we decided to separate, or know someone else.
Then think about the love that we lost and we realize that we are still in love with him or her or that things really do not spend so debian, and we recover the relationship. But how can we?
How to persuade your ex to return..
The first thing you have to do is figure out what went wrong in the relationship and why it ended. We can not build a new and better relationship if you do not know what went wrong and why. Otherwise, everything that happened in the old relationship will happen again and everything will come again.
You may seek some counseling to help you, because you may not be able to properly understand what is failing in yourself, especially if you’re part of the liability in the destruction of your relationship.
Once you pass this important process, then you have to work on what you can really do to recover when the relationship is not a repeat of before. Otherwise, what you offer to your ex?
Your ex does not want to echo the same kind of relationship that did not work. Nobody wants to live in a relationship that will end soon. Most of us start a relationship with the hope that it will work.
The sad thing is that at the beginning of most relationships, couples love could be. In the end a lot of couples hate each other. It’s really amazing how a person can love first, then hate the person that said love.
The second thing you have to do is make positive changes in your behavior and conversation. Your ex will not want to be back with you again if you did not change.
It is also really important to ask yourself why you want your ex back? There must be many reasons. You could be alone / single, financially in a bad living situation or a worse relationship with another person, or some other reason.
Do you really want to get back with your ex that the relationship is positive for life and leaning both? In fact this also must be so for your ex too, since neither wants the relationship to fail again.
Persuade your ex to return with these changes is really effective..
You have to do everything possible to improve as a person and realize that the re- commitment will not be easy, that for the relationship to work, you have to be tolerant of each other, and what happened in the past will not happen again.
Love, kindness, patience, persistence and commitment are necessary for any relationship to work.
What can they do? Good luck to you both.
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