How do I make my ex girlfriend miss me and look for me? Do I do well if I act like she does not exist?
Should I call her? Just questions and in this small post I will solve this doubt. I hope you pay attention to what I will comment on.
For a long time we have been talking about the supreme importance of zero contact, and we have even spoken of many authors defending the idea that too long a zero contact is bad, and also applying it too lightly is also of little use.
Nevertheless, zero contact remains a useful tool to date. -And what I have said «to date» – since while still useful, I do not rule out at all the idea that new methodologies work.
So, what to do so that your ex girlfriend misses you and by the way look for you.
Let me give you some tips…
How to make my ex girlfriend miss me and find me 3 things you can start doing
Point 1. Get a life.
I really hate it when someone tells me «get a life» because it makes me think that I have a life so «boring» that the fact that they tell me touches some fibers of my ego; You may feel as I do.
However, this has all the sense of the world, your ex partner will never miss what does not have any emotional meaning for her, therefore; Get a life, that suppose to see you more attractive, striking with some activities that you find exciting, It will suit you.
Do something you’ve never done, get out and have fun, but do not let your life revolve around it.
Item # 2. Make good use of social networks.
Okay, before I continue, I personally ask myself, «If no one saw me doing what I do, do I really want to do it?» This is an interesting question since many social media use social media.
Unfortunately that makes you addicted to this social network (Facebook) with what you will see so but so in need of attention, you end up giving the opposite message to the desired.
It is better to use Facebook as if it did not exist and upload photos as if no one but you were to see them.
In this way you will arouse interest in the other person – certainly your ex – will be much more effective if you do it very naturally and without desperately drawing attention.
Item # 3. Your children; Your promoters.
That your 14-year-old teens want to spend time with you, and even make the effort to be with you, is the best sign that you are a good father, and you are the hero of your children.
Congratulations! Since to gain the appreciation, affection and even admiration of the adolescent children, is a challenge that few parents achieve.
If your children love you to the degree of wanting to spend time with you, it is because you have positive emotions to offer; So it will say how great it is to be with you, and in short that will give you points in front of your ex partner.
Stop chasing the one she misses you, call you or look for you. Contrary to that, do as if this event were but one more milestone in your life, and treat it as anything, the rest will come in addition.