How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back If She’s With Someone Else or Does Not Love You Anymore

get your ex girlfriend backCan get your ex girlfriend back who has started dating another man? Can you go back with an ex-girlfriend who no longer loves you? The answer to these 2 questions in one: Yes, if you can.

But before you must handle some principles of seduction and attraction to return to fall in love with your ex girlfriend, otherwise your chances of recovering will be lower.

Steps to get your ex girlfriend back.

Your ex girlfriend or wife decided to end the relationship because something did not attract him the same, not necessarily of you, but of the relationship itself.

That is why your first duty if you want to get your ex girlfriend back:

1) Think about why you left: Surely she gave you some reasons why you wanted to end the relationship, and while you should pay attention, you should know that in many cases these reasons are just pre-made phrases, such as:

a) «I need time to think what happens to me …» recover-girlfriend

b) «It’s not you, it’s me …»

c) «Things are not as before …»

d) «I’m confused …»

e) «You are very much for me, I do not deserve you …»

f) «We have very few things in common …»

g) «I’m not so excited anymore …»

h) «I want to focus on my work (or studies) …»

i) «I still do not want to compromise with anything …»


While these phrases are suggestive and can give you a «clue» to what really happened to your ex-wife, you should not rely 100% on them. It is well known that both men and women, when they end a relationship, are in most cases not entirely honest.

This is because they do not want to hurt their partner’s feelings.

On the one hand this is fine, since to tell a person something like «I do not want to be with you because I do not like you physically», is very cruel, however, honesty will always be the best when it comes to fixing and solving problems couple, keep it always present.

To know why your ex girlfriend or wife decided to end the relationship is good to clear your mind, breathe deeply, stop suffering and you analyze coldly what could have happened:

a) No longer had sex?

b) Did you become unfaithful?

c) Did the relationship fall into a monotonous routine?

d) Did you neglect your physical appearance and your general health?

e) Did you just say NO to your invitations and panoramas?

f) Did you look for her a lot and always wanted to be with her? (One of the most common)

g) Were you jealous and asked everything he had done on the day, even, you were reviewing his mobile phone or Facebook?


It’s your job to analyze all these reasons and more, to come to an honest conclusion that tells you why your ex-girlfriend really left you.

2) Accept the term of the relationship for now: As difficult as it may seem, you MUST necessarily, if you want to get you ex girlfriend back, girlfriend, wife, or whatever your wife has been for you, accept the term relationship. This will open your mind in ways you still do not suspect.

Now you are in a situation where you do not want to accept the fact that your wife left you. You are confused, you feel sorry, in some cases rage, you do not know what to do and all you want is to ask for explanations and get it back.

Feeling all this is natural and normal, but it is not healthy and will not help you recover it.

The attitude that you must take from TODAY is an attitude of «To the shit», or as popularly known in North America, «Fuck it».

This means that you DO NOT care that your ex has left you, you just do not attach great importance to it and you continue with your life as it was before and even better, happier, fuller, happier, and with more time to do the things you like most.

Spend time on your hobbies or hobbies (if you do not have one, it is fundamental that you start doing something and that you are passionate about it, this may be playing a musical instrument, playing sports, having a very active social life, work, etc.). It is very important that you have hobbies, as this makes you an interesting man for your ex girlfriend and for any woman.

On the contrary, if your free time is spent on the computer, watching TV, eating and spying on your ex by Facebook or seeing pictures of the two of you when they were together, you will become everything a woman DOES NOT want from a man.

Women want independent men who are interesting, have social life, have projects that are passionate about them, and above all are not always available to them, the latter becomes very attractive for many women and is very healthy for any relationship .

A man who calls his wife all day long, who is constantly insisting that they be together and that when this can not, makes a «scandal», will end yes or for causing the relationship to break up.

From today welcome the freedom in your life, the attitude of «fuck», not only with the break, but with most of the problems you have, and I assure you that your attitude will change for the better.

3) Let some time pass: As I said in other articles, letting time pass (depending on the type of relationship you’ve had, but usually goes between 2 to 6 weeks) without having any contact with your ex couple is very important to «start over».

It is essential that:

a) Your ex does not know anything about you at this time.

b) You also do not know anything about her at this time (no spying on Facebook, Twitter, phone, send messages, much less spy)

In order for this plan to be successful, you must necessarily take your free time in other activities.

Most men do not have as much willpower, and usually fall into the temptation of contacting their former women prematurely, spoiling the whole strategy.

So, when you are thinking about her, about to call her or enter your Facebook profile, call friends, family, or if you do not have anyone, leave your house for a walk. It’s amazing what can clear your mind a good walk while listening to your favorite music (not music that your former partner liked).

In this time of no contact you will heal your mind first, saying goodbye to the negative and destructive thoughts that caused the relationship to end.

And second, to improve your physical appearance. This is very simple. Your ex-girlfriend liked you physically so that’s a path you’ve already won. Now your duty is to improve that aspect.

If you gain weight, the answer is clear, you must diet following a healthy diet, this combined with daily exercise (which can be from walking to walk every day at a fast pace, jogging, or enter a gym, this it will allow you to clear your mind and meet new people, even new women).

It is also good to worry about your personal hygiene. A good haircut is never wrong, and a new hairstyle is not.

The idea of ​​all this is to increase your self-esteem through improving your physical appearance and your mental attitude, because it is proven that a man with a good self-esteem is highly attractive for women.

After some time has passed and you feel ready to go back to see your ex this will happen naturally, you can call casually to schedule an appointment, or you can answer a call from her, that at this point you will die of curiosity for hear from you.

You know what is the first thing to do if the relationship with your ex girlfriend or wife is finished.

You know the mistakes you do not have to make and what are the steps to take, now it’s up to you to implement this strategy, which has worked very well with different men from different parts of the world. Get your ex girlfriend back is possible in a short time.

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