Before your ex girlfriend, fiance or wife broke up with you, she went through 3 basic stages. She first lost respect for you as a man, then lost attraction and then began to fall out of love with you.
To get her back, you're going to need to guide her through those 3 stages once again, starting with getting her respect back. Once she respects you again, she will then open up to her renewed feelings of attraction for you. When that happens, she will naturally begin to fall back in love with you.
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