There are certain things where you just do not overdo it in any form at this point if you’re trying to talk to a former girlfriend, remember that the past is past and it is definitely in one of those things that you should not talk.
While at the time it is a good idea to use a good memory as a way to build some relationship and make your ex feel the connection again, talking about the past too much can give the wrong idea.
She may think or you can make you feel as if you’re one of those guys who live in the past and that’s definitely something you should not do not make sense if you’re trying again to build a future with her.
So what you have to remember the past?
You just have to adhere to the good stuff and still be very careful, because in fact there are some good memories that will anyway be linked to bad.
Things like that weekend getaway that movie was, but can also include the fight they had on the way back that are not easy to forget, then the conversation changes and then, suddenly, the atmosphere goes from bad worse in a very short period of time.
You should definitely talk about some things from the past, and that in fact it helps to build the relationship and the feeling of returning to socialize with your ex, but be sure to keep education at the time they get the bad memories for her.
You must speak now, and talk about the future
The fact that I can stay focused on the present is always good if you want to a happy future and hint at your side does not hurt either. Find a way to make it feel like I’m still connected with you, because you do not think of you as one of those guys who is part of their past and intended to stay there.
You should also bring up the future in a way suggestive or implies that you and she can have a good time together just so she begins to bring to mind the idea of returning to you in a good way.
Whatever you do, stay calm
The other thing to avoid is seem like you’d be too keen on the idea of getting back with her again. It is much easier to recover a former girlfriend when it seems natural «just» that way you planned it or not it happens.
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