If you end up with your ex and have been separated for over a year, you’ll need to recover a completely different strategy.
From the outset, you should analyze well the current situation with your ex before trying to recover, because it is more likely that within a year things have changed.
In one year a lot can happen, for example, both have dated other people have been out of touch for a long time, maybe your ex knows nothing about you or your it, your ex has a new relationship, etc. What is the current situation with your ex ?.
Another important point that should not be overlooked is to know why you want to get back with your ex after a year.
It’s been a year and suddenly you realize that your ex is the right person for you. Why ?, are you sure it’s the right decision? Or you will never forget ?.
If ever you made an effort to move forward after the break and have been in love with your ex all this time, then you should re-raise the idea of recovering it.
Often an obsession may continue for years, perhaps you’ve been obsessed with your ex girlfriend for so long confused obsession with love.
Examples of situations where it is not recommended to try to get your ex back after a year:
* You broke up with your ex because they fought a lot, now do not know how she is and think already changed.
* You broke up with your ex was unfaithful because you now think has changed and that will not happen again.
* Your ex-girlfriend left you for another and is now single again.
You left your ex-girlfriend on the other and now you’re single again.
If the reason you broke up with your ex is one of the above (or similar) is not recommended to try to recover after a year because the chances of failure are high and if so is likely to return after a while break.
On the other hand, there are cases where you realize that your ex was someone very special and the reason why they ended up was negligible, they did not took time to fix your problem.
Examples of breaking in which is recommended if trying to get your ex back after a year or more:
* You broke up with your ex because one of them was not ready to commit, not looking for a serious relationship.
* You broke up with your ex because one of them did not want children, now both want one.
* You broke up with your ex because one of them went to live in another city or country, now both live where same.
* You broke up with your ex after a small fight, ending the relationship was a hasty decision. Now you’re ready to give it another chance.
If the situation with your ex is breaking any of the above (or similar) then if it is advisable to try to recover as the possibilities to have her back to you they are high.
Before contacting your ex girlfriend.
If you were in touch with your ex girlfriend throughout the year, it is advisable to apply the rule of «no contact» for at least 30 days. But if you were not in touch with her the whole time, then you need to apply that rule.
Making contact with your ex after a year.
You can make contact via text messages, it is a very private and discreet. It is important that such contact possible as indifferent, treat her as an «old best friend», instead of «ex girlfriend or ex-lover.»
If you have not been in contact with your ex for a long time, chances are that I will answer. You must maintain a friendly conversation, not implying that you want to go back with her.
Treat it as you would treat a friend to whom you long time no see and want to know what happened to her during that time.
The next step is to ask her out, if she agrees then fail to show how much you’ve changed in the last year and always remember that everything must make treating her as a friend.
You should not force anything, do not take the issue back together, at least not now just starting out.