Why anyone would want back with your ex? Why do you want to be back with someone who came out of your life? Why do you want to be with someone who no longer wants to be with you?
These are all valid questions that some people have about reconciliation. But not those who want to return to her ex, because they have a very simple answer to all these questions: «I still love my ex». And as we all know love is the only thing that matters in this world.
Now, do not misunderstand, I’m not against reconciliation. In fact, most of my articles are about to get your ex back. But I am against NEED confused with love.
– The only valid to return to your former reason is because you want to give another chance to the relationship, and not because you need your ex.
Bad reasons to return to your ex:
There could be many other variations of the above. But you should know that no reason is solid if desperation or necessity can see it.
Now, there may be many reasons to try again. I know of many cases of couples who got back together and live a happy life. I receive many emails from my readers that back together and getting married, and I have never been happier.
– Of course, these are not the only emails I receive. I also get emails from readers saying they returned to their former just to break back again. And if I have to guess, I’d say the reason they got back together was one of the above.
6 Reasons why it is worth saving your relationship
Now, here are some of the reasons why a good idea if it would get back together.
# 1. The break was a hasty decision.
Sometimes relationships break due to ego. Often people give up easily end a beautiful relationship instead of working on it. These types of break usually a hasty and not well thought out decision.
# 2. You had a great relationship.
save your relacionAhora have to understand I’m not talking about the «honeymoon» phase of the relationship. I mean, the time when your partner seems perfect, never fight and simply can not be beat. NO, it does not define a great relationship. That’s just an average ratio with a period of average honey moon.
A great relationship is based on honesty, respect, trust and communication.
How would you rate your relationship in these 4 factors? If you think that was great in the 4 areas, then you can go ahead and say that your relationship with your ex was great. And I sincerely wish you well.
# 3. They have a child together.
Divorce or separation can be very hard for a child. If the possibility of getting back together and give your relationship another chance, then it is worth a try.
However, if your relationship was abusive or toxic, then the separation is much better than being together. There is nothing worse for a child to grow up in a toxic environment.
# 4. It was a circumstantial break.
Often, relationships are broken because of the circumstances. Perhaps one of you had to go to another city for study or work and did not want to continue the relationship to the distance (or tried to distance relationship did not work).
If such is the case, then it’s worth trying again with your ex, as long as the circumstances have changed.
# 5. Have you found any serious potential in the relationship.
Couple amorosaEsta reason is a bit difficult to analyze, because anyone who thinks that there is still love between the two, believe that there is potential in the relationship. But it is worth putting here.
If you think you can really have a great future with your ex, then it would be worth trying again. However, be sure not to concentrate all your efforts on back with your ex or obsess about that.
You just try to get back with your ex once.
If not, you should move on with your life. Sometimes a false hope leads to cling to a lost cause. And before you know it, you’ve spent your whole life chasing the white whale.
# 6. Your friends think it’s a good idea to get back with your ex.
In most cases, your friends and family will tell you simply that you continue with your life and forget your ex. And I do not say always right. However, if you say you should try to get back with your ex, then it means that your relationship is probably worth saving.
Your friends will know better than anyone and if you believe that your ex deserves another chance, then it is worth attempting reconciliation.