When a relationship is terminated, it confronts people with severe suffering, who does not know when or how to overcome it. We all have had to go through that experience that becomes insufferable at the time, so much so that the days become eternal, but as the saying goes: «there is no evil that lasts 100 years, no body that can resist it», everything is overcome .
Well, if you are one of those people who, like me, are curious to know if you have finally surpassed your ex, here I leave you 8 signals that will guarantee that you have already overcome and are ready for a new emotional life.
1. You feel pretty
At the end of a relationship, the natural thing is that the spirit is destroyed, and with it, self-love remains on the ground. That’s why, when you start to see yourself beautiful again, you feel like changing your look and you know that within you something has changed for good and also notes that you are also attractive to others.
2. You realize that other men are attractive to you
Terror remembers that time when you thought that nobody could ever get to like you more than him. Yes, a strong sign that you have overcome is that you start noticing how other men seem attractive, perhaps the ugly side of the matter is that if you get to see your ex again by chance you find yourself wondering: «And I I saw this one? »
3. You feel appreciated
When you start dating again, you appreciate being aware that someone cares about you and treats you as you deserve. It is here where you feel that you took a long time to terminate your previous relationship.
But do not worry, you have learned the lesson and for the next you will act with more speed and you will realize how to respect you, others treat you much better.
4. Your goals are renewed
When things are wrong in some aspect of your life it is very difficult to focus on future goals or plans. In spite of that, when you get rid of bad situations, focusing on your purposes and objectives becomes simpler and clearer, you see everything with a better perspective and getting down to work is more than an immediate action.
5. Take back old and good friendships
Uff! Many people make the mistake of allowing their life to revolve around that person they consider special, to the point that they leave their friends and even family behind.
It is not that now because you are alone you feel the need to be surrounded by people, no, it is that you have realized the mistake made and wish to have your good friends, those who always treated you well, back in your life.
6. Your health has visibly improved
No person who has a problem with their partner every day is in good health. That is why when you get away from that stressful situation, you notice how you no longer suffer from heartburn, anxiety attacks, migraines and many other ills that invaded you almost daily. Even, you recover your ideal weight and feel desires to do some sport, taking care of yourself is an important part of your life now.
7. You enjoy romance again
There is no love that does not arise subject to romantic details, in spite of that, that romantic sense was lost little by little in your previous relationship, the effect of so much lack of love. With everything, now in your new life, you have realized that you still like those special dedications, those little notes left in your purse and so many other details that make you feel alive and loved.
8. You feel full of hopeful
Waking up every day is the promise of a prosperous future and it all started when you decided to abandon your ex. Now you know how to enjoy moments of solitude and tranquility, you enjoy going for a walk and eating alone once in a while, all this tells you that you have freed yourself and you are happy again.
They are simple but significant things that change the way you see life. Tell me, do not you feel liberated and ready to fly high and far from sadness?